Gate 37 :

Friendship

Caring Through Fair Exchange

Gate 37 is the tribe’s warm hearth: it sustains bonds through kindness, fair deals, and shared responsibility, reminding everyone that balanced giving and receiving is what keeps families—and friendships—alive.

Gate 37 is the hearthfire. It’s the glue of community, the warmth of belonging, the calm in the chaos. This gate governs emotional bonds within families, teams, and chosen communities. Your natural strength lies in your ability to nurture harmony, protect fairness, and ensure everyone feels included and cared for.

Whether it’s making sure resources are shared, roles are balanced, or everyone’s voice is heard—you hold the emotional blueprint for what makes a group feel like home. You value trust, respect, and mutual responsibility, and you likely thrive when surrounded by those who share your values.

In distortion, Gate 37 can become overprotective, clingy, or emotionally reactive—especially if fairness is broken or bonds are strained. In alignment, it becomes a powerful stabilizer and a bringer of emotional peace.

Gift: Nurturing that sets clear agreements: “I care, and this is what we each bring to the table.”
Shadow: Dependency, score-keeping, or retreat into cliques that dismiss the value of family/tribe.
Growth: Place feelings on the table—unspoken needs breed resentment. Remember that real generosity includes healthy limits. Lead through example; in tribes, actions speak louder than ideals.

When Gate 37 is activated, ask: “What agreement or simple act of care would restore balance right now?” A small, sincere gesture—sharing food, listening without judgement, splitting a task—often realigns the whole group.

Gate 37
Gate 37
Gate 37:
Friendship
The Gate of Caring Through Fair Exchange
Gate Description
Gate 37 is the tribe’s warm hearth: it sustains bonds through kindness, fair deals, and shared responsibility, reminding everyone that balanced giving and receiving is what keeps families—and friendships—alive.
Energy Circuit
Tribal: Ego
Location: Energy Center
Bridge Gate(s)
WHAT ARE "LINES"?

Each Gate has six “lines”. They are represented by the number after the decimal for each gate (3.4, 10.2, 41.3, etc.).

Each Line carries a different “flavor” of a gate’s energy. The Lines are determined by the precise planetary placements on your bodygraph chart. Some placements can change lines every 12 minutes!

The 6 Lines are derived from the Chinese I’Ching’s Hexagrams.

Lines 1, 2, and 3 are energies for more personal, individual growth.

Lines 4, 5, and 6 are energies for growth through, or for, the outside world.

Lines of Gate 37

Line 1: The Mother/Father

Instinctively earns respect by modeling gentle authority; harmony thrives when this caring presence stays sensitive to everyone’s feelings.

Line 2: Responsibility

Keeps the household running by owning personal duties and expecting the same from others; can turn preachy if it only points out where people fall short.

Line 3: Evenhandedness

Reads group norms well and corrects mis-steps fairly; stress may push it to test boundaries or punish others too harshly.

Line 4: Leadership by Example

Shows high principles in daily chores, proving anyone can lead through conduct; conservative bias may dismiss leaders who don’t fit tradition.

Line 5: Love

Gives and shares naturally, creating genuine fellowship; unchecked emotional dependency can twist affection into clinging or spite.

Line 6: Purpose

Sees the deeper worth of family and extends that appreciation outward, building inclusive friendships; restlessness for novelty may undervalue home ties and drift away.
Gate 37

Gate 37 Hexagram

About the Hexagrams and the i'ching

The 64 gates in the Human Design system correspond directly to the 64 hexagrams of the I’Ching, an ancient Chinese system of wisdom and divination. Each hexagram is a six-line figure made up of a combination of yin (broken) and yang (solid) lines. Together, they form symbolic representations of natural patterns, life themes, and human experiences.

In Human Design, the hexagrams are interpreted as energetic frequencies. Each gate on the BodyGraph carries the energetic signature of one hexagram, expressing its core essence through the mechanics of our design. The Gates are “activated” based on your time of birth. This determines your natural gifts, challenges, and ways of engaging with the world.

Hexagrams are traditionally read from the bottom line (Line 1) to the top (Line 6)—a progression that shows how energy or awareness develops over time. This structure is mirrored in Human Design Profiles, which are also built on combinations of these six lines.

Together, the 64 hexagrams form a complete map of human potential. It is encoded in the genetic structure of DNA and mirrored in the cosmos in the Human Design Mandala. Each one is a lens through which we can understand a specific part of what it means to be human.

Planetary Placements

The unique energies and symbolism for each gate

Planetary placements describe which gate each planet was activating at the moment of your birth. The position of the planets in the sky leaves a distinct energetic imprint, creating your personal energetic blueprint.

Each planet is expressed twice in the chart: once in the conscious (right) column and once in the unconscious (left).

Right Side of Your Chart: energies you’re more aware of – like personality traits, behaviors, quirks

Left Side of Your Chart: unconscious patterns and inherited traits you may not recognize but others clearly see.

Together, these planetary activations activate your gates, define your channels, and ultimately determine your energy type, strategy, and authority.

Sun

Life Force / Personality Expression

Life Theme, Who We "Are", What We "Do"

Personality Side: How we express our “light” in the world.

Design Side: Inherited life theme from the father’s lineage.

Earth

Grounding / Balance / Stability

How we Integrate Energy from our Sun Gates

How we find balance and integrate our Personality Sun placement.

How we integrate energy from our Design Sun placement and find stability.

North Node

Future Direction / Environment

change in mindset over time, our evolution

How you see the world and yourself. How you frame your environment and the people in it.

SOUTH Node

experiences in life / outlook / past

change in mindset over time, our evolution

How you see the world and yourself. How you frame your environment and the people in it.

Moon

Driving force

What We need to feel happy, safe, secure

How we use and direct our energy. The reflection of our inner-self that is perceived by others.

Mercury

Communication / curiousity

what you're here to communicate

Personality Side: insight into what you need to communicate in this life.

Design Side: seemingly random things you communicate to strangers

Venus

Values / Sociology

our values and personal "way of life"

Representation of love and beauty.

Our personal moral compass for how we deal with others and the world.

Connected with Jupiter and Saturn.

Mars

nature / action / raw power

Growth Areas to gain wisdom

Our determination, drive, motivation, and actions. Uncontrollable way of acting in situations of pressure, conflict, or stress.

jupiter

personal code / expansion

New Opportunities

Jupiter turns Venus’ values into laws. By following our Strategy and Authority and keeping our personal laws (Venus placements), we find fulfillment. Enforced by Saturn.

saturn

discipline / challenges

Self-Responsibility

Areas where we find resistance, limitations, and challenges – areas of correction, pointing out misalignment with our personal laws (Venus and Jupiter).

Uranus

Unusualness / Chaos + Order

What makes you "weird"
Revolution, change, transition, instability, and individuality. Our rebellious quality that makes us different from others. How we express our unique eccentricity.

Neptune

Imagination + Spirituality + Magic

Embrace mystery & believe in the impossible

Release what you believe to be true. Allow yourself to believe the unbelievable to fulfill the potential of this gate.

Pluto

Truth and Transformation

how we discover our truest self
Our deepest truth hidden within. How we grow and evolve. It is all about rebirth and transformation.